Blunt Force Truth: Any time you are looking to fill a void, you are telling the universe that you are incomplete. So don’t seek out someone to fulfill your life, to comfort you, or to make you feel good. Don’t seek your other half. Don’t seek love. Just don’t seek. Find what you need within yourself, and then you will come into your full understanding that you are whole and complete. S/he will come into your life when you embrace your power and love yourself. So be free! Be independent! Be you! 
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