You have a choice. You can look at someone as if they’re absolutely perfect and flawless. However, you’ll disappoint yourself when you see imperfections and the facade crumbles away. You can look at someone as dirt and be in constant amazement by the stories of love and compassion. But what’s that say about how you see people? If you see them as healers and creators, you bring out their best (and yours). No expectations. Constant amazement. And a higher vibrational viewpoint for you. 
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