Blunt Force Truth: You do not deserve better (until YOU’RE willing to change). The fact is that everything in your field of awareness and your actions led to the lessons YOU’VE attracted. Take responsibility first. Then take action. Set your intent. Do the work. Follow through. Hold yourself responsible and KNOW YOUR WORTH. Here’s a bonus: When someone says you deserve better they are unknowingly putting you in the victim position and sucking your energy! Rather than letting that happen, notice how you can take charge and MAKE it better!  
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