How to be gracious: Being nice out of the goodness of your own heart releases expectations, allowing even more universal flow. You know, that juicy goodness that is pure love! The more you give, the more open you become to receiving. And I don’t mean receiving from the other person. No, it’s way better than that! What you receive comes from source, straight to your heart. You receive confidence and happiness. And it’s good to know that, isn’t it?