Stay true to your feelings. They are telling you something. They are the window to the very essence of who you are–the love at your core. And know that you can react or respond. If you think someone’s provocative, that is your reaction to who someone else is. Know the difference. Be gentle and see through the eyes of unconditional love. Your feelings are yours. Honor them and be true to attract mutual feelings of others. That is all. 
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