Blunt Force Truth: If you are afraid of losing someone, you’ve already lost them. Because if fear of losing someone is guiding your actions and words, you are not coming from a place aligned with who you really are. Fear is not who you are, but love is. Acting out of fear holds your loved one back from shining their brilliant light. And it is an injustice for anyone to try to dim anyone else’s light! By living in fear and dimming their light, you’ve already lost them. So lose yourself instead. Lose your fears and worries. Lose your blocks to love. Lose the old neural pathways you’ve followed that are anything less than love and allow new neural pathways to grow with new empowering behaviors in place of old ones that no longer serve you. That is when those you love can shine, and so you will too.